You may not remember that I am a twin, unidentical, and I have twin daughters, identical. Anyway for our 75th birthday my daughters put together a reunion that came to be called "the twintinabulation of the belles" a parody of the poet, Edgar Allen Poe's Tintinabulation of the Bells.
How about designing 4 decorated boxes for us called
"Twintinabulation of the Belles Dementia Bo," into which we have copies of all these documents - all the docs of the older set of twins in all the boxes. And then, one day, all the docs of the second set of twins as the boxes have more space each time an older twin dies.
And/or: the box goes into the coffin of each together with favorite objects such as her rosary, her cross...? or these go up in the cremation flames if that is the method desired.
A para-liturgical innovation to wow any conventional funeral attendees?
Is this blog itself a sign that dementia is already firmly entrenched?